Subtle red flags noticed in a child’s behaviour or body movements should not be ignored. Usually, we tend to dismiss these signs, thinking that we are overreacting or that it is normal. However, a closer look at their behaviour can save pain and frustration later on. Let's examine some red flags in achieving developmental milestones that should not be overlooked.
What are some red flags observed in a child’s development?
- 1 year: By 1 year of age, the baby would be able to crawl on their own and might understand certain words. If your baby is unable to crawl or stand on with support, it can be a subtle red flag.
- 2 years: By 2 years of age, the child should be able to utter small words, run, or walk. If this is not observed, it can be a developmental delay.
- 3 years: Around 3 years of age, the child should be able to climb stairs, articulate simple sentences, and express their needs. However, if the child is unable to do this and has difficulty socializing with their peers, it can be a red flag.
If these signs are still noticeable by 4 years of age, then it would be better to get proper support for them. Spotting the signs early on and providing support as soon as possible can be beneficial.
Other red flags to look out for:
Not responding to name while being called (by 12 months).
Unable to babble or make sounds (by 12 months).
Avoids eye contact repeatedly.
Hates being cuddled/held.
Shows little interest in others.
Hyperactivity.
Difficulty completing tasks (For instance, difficulty finishing homework).
Inability to concentrate (can affect a child’s academic performance).
Forgetfulness.
Gets easily angry or irritable.
Gets scared easily.
Persistent sadness.
Repetitive speech/body movements.
Inability to grasp objects properly after 10-12 months of age.
What can you do as a parent?
Let us look at some tips that you can follow as a parent:
Talk to your child: Communicate with them in simple language and point out objects to teach them their names.
Use picture books: Some children learn better visually. Use picture books to teach your child. Encourage them to ask questions.
Use playtime to teach your child: Use kitchen sets, blocks, or musical instruments to teach your child about various objects and their uses.
Positive reinforcement: Make sure to celebrate and reward small achievements. This can encourage your child to learn more.
Reach out for support
It is not shameful to ask for help. You can reach out to a pediatrician or a child specialist for support. Collaborating with your child’s teachers can also help. Early intervention can help improve a child’s confidence and self-esteem.
If your child exhibits red flags, do not be scared. Providing proper love and support can aid them in flourishing well! So if something feels off, trust your gut instincts and get support for your child.
